Ralstins Words

So in my group of friends there is talk about the possibly of me winding up with my ex-girlfriend. The thing is that I am trying to see their reasoning for this. One of my freinds tell me not to worry about it just let it go. I can not do this I must find out why people say that I will wind up with her. I will tell you the reason for this madness.

Love is an unsolvable equation there is no explainable way to know for sure if you love someone. What are the signs of love? How do you know that the person that you marry is the right one, or that you have just not meet the right person yet? These are the things that one can not answer. How do you know that love your parents? How do you know that your just not saying it?

Here is the thing that scares me is making a mistake like marrying the wrong person. When you marry someone it aught to be forever. If not then there will be enormous amounts of damage. Dont get me wrong I am happy for my friends that have found love and are sure it tis the right one. However it boggles me that they can not explain how they know for certain that this is the right person for them for ever, they just know,

This is why things like this bother me so. What if my ex is in fact the right one for me, Maybe it is the wrong time though. On the other hand what if the right one for me I am to meet ten years from now? How to know these questions I do not know. However it seems like my friends have all the answers on this matter. This is why love frightens me so. I can not understand it or be certain of it.

Maybe you people might be able to give me some insight to this matter for me.